Finally you have decided to get settled, good decision and if its love marriage then there won’t be much anxiety but if it’s arranged marriage them one would be curious and anxious at the same time, how the other person would be, what if he turns out bad, what if we don’t get along well etc. So, before tying knot and becoming one, ask few questions to yourself and of course to your partner.
1. What is the basis of marriage for both of you? Is it love, trust or respect or three of them altogether?
2. What does marriage means to you and to your partner?
3. Do you want a working wife or a housewife?
4. Do you share same interests?
5. Where will you live after marriage?
6. What does one think about the issues like infidelity and commitment?
7. What does one think about children?
8. What kind of family values one have, are they liberal, moderate or conservative?
9. If the other person gets angry how will you try to resolve conflict?
There are many instances where couples instantly fall in love looking at the other person. So, looks do play an important role but in the long run what really means is is nature because as we know time will fade away looks but it cant take away the nature of a person and then we have a famous saying "Looks can be deceptive" so talk freely with the other person and then decide can you spend your whole life with him or her.